Love. Out. Proud.

IrisMingle, a personalized matchmaking service, was created to cater to the beauty and diversity of the LGBTQIP community, and be the source for genuine organic connections, away from “the swipe”.

We welcome lesbian, gay, bisexual, bicurious, transgender, queer, questioning, intersex, pansexual, polyamorous, non-binary, gender-fluid humans, and everyone else in between.

Our belief, is that everyone deserves to live in the love that celebrates who they are, so get started today and Love. Out. Proud.


Our Philosophy

At IrisMingle, we will never claim to find you your¬†perfect¬†match. Why? Because we’re not trying to sell you an unrealistic dream… no person or relationship is perfect, it takes work to make any partnership thrive. However, we will connect you with someone that’s worth putting in the work for!

We will find someone that matches your love language, someone that communicates their feelings effectively, someone that will make you laugh, someone who comforts you when you’re sad, someone that will listen to you, someone who gets you, someone that will tell you when you have food in your teeth someone that will support your dreams, someone who will have your back, someone that will dance with you in the pouring rain, and so on, and so on.

Our Services

– Matchmaking for serious dating and love
– Connections for casual dating, friends, and activity partners
– Dating coaching
– Makeover
– Counseling
– Mediation for individuals currently in a relationship or situationship
– Wing person
– Mingling events and meet ups

The Process

* First, you’ll fill out the initial form on the Get Started page


* Then, you’ll receive a confirmation email to schedule a call.


* Next, we’ll chat with you on the phone and get to know each other for a bit (15-45mins).


* After the call, we’ll either make an appointment to meet in-person/Skype, or you’ll be suggested for dating coaching/counseling.


* Then, we meet in person and talk about what would be the best human for you (1-2hrs)


* After we meet, you’re officially in our database and can start meeting potential matches right away!


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